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Polygamous/Polyamorous Relationships can be Beneficial

A'alia Zealous
3 min readOct 20, 2021

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Here’s why

We’re multifaceted people, and a lot of times, it’s impossible or even unfair to expect one person to fulfil every aspect of your needs that you desire in a relationship.

For a lot of people, one person doesn’t fulfill all of an individuals needs. And that doesn’t mean that the individual is lacking in some way or isn’t compatible to you. It just means that there are aspects of your relationship and parts of your life that fulfill the both of you, but there are also parts of your lives that don’t align or you have no interest in sharing together.

Just because your partner loves sports and playing them, and you like art and go to all of the art shows, doesn’t mean that it’s the end of the world that you never want to go participate in a community football game or that she finds it boring to sit in on art shows with you.

But if you both love to cook together, and food, and traveling to different places to try different restaurants and that’s the aspect of your lives that you connect deeply on, the relationship isn’t more invalid because you don’t have other interests that you participate in together.

Friend, lover, seducer, someone you tell all your secrets to, someone you handle business with and have the absolute most carefree time with…

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A'alia Zealous
A'alia Zealous

Written by A'alia Zealous

I'm a young woman with a lot of shit to say, and sometimes, I don't know how to say it. I have a deep desire to understand myself and the world around me.

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